I'm a homewrecker and I don't feel guilty about it - your husband's choices aren't my problem

A mother-of-three from the US has proclaimed herself a homewrecker and says she doesn't feel guilty about sleeping with married men because it's 'just business'.

Holly Jane Johnston makes her living filming explicit content with men and uploading it online, and says many of them turn out to be married. 

She tells Daily Mail that sometimes her scene partners become so obsessed with her they leave their wives, but Holly, 43, insists the fault does not lie with her.  

'Most of the men I film with are married and their wives don't know,' she says. 

'I don't feel guilty about it because, if it wasn't me, they'd find someone else to make content with, sleep with or subscribe to. They're responsible for their own decisions.

'⁠I'm not responsible for managing another adult's relationship.'

'Every person I work with is an adult making their own decisions, just like they do in every other aspect of their life,' Holly adds.

'My responsibility is to run my business professionally. I make sure the people I work with are tested, respectful, and a good fit for my brand. 

'Beyond that, I can't police someone's personal life. The reality is that a large percentage of the men who reach out to creators in this industry are married. 

'That's simply part of the demographic. I don't view it as my role to determine or investigate someone else's personal relationship.'

Holly goes on to say that 'every adult is accountable for their own choices' and while she 'feels bad' when a relationship falls apart, she doesn't feel responsible for it.  

'I do feel bad when I hear that a marriage didn't work out. I don't celebrate that, and I never want to see people get hurt,' she says. 

'At the same time, that doesn't mean I'm going to start screening everyone's personal life or turn down a collaboration that's otherwise a good fit.

'A lot of the time, I don't even find out someone is married until later.' 

'I'm not conducting background checks or investigating people's personal lives because, ultimately, that's not my responsibility,' she continues. 

'My responsibility is to run my business professionally, work with consenting adults, and be clear about the nature of our collaboration. 

'Beyond that, every adult is responsible for their own choices.'

According to Holly, many men she films with become convinced the collaboration will become something more, and they end up 'imploding' when it doesn't. 

'Some of them get emotionally attached, but what they're really attached to is that they think I want more with them,' she says. 

'Even though we've discussed the whole purpose of this beforehand, some of them think the relationship or the sex is going to continue. 

'When that doesn't happen, it messes with them. They think I need them or want them, so it's hard for them to accept that I used them for content and then moved on. 

'It can take a while before they finally get the hint, while others keep hoping it will carry on.'

Holly says she has had some men become so 'obsessed' with her that she began fearing for her safety.  

'I've had someone become so obsessed that I felt I had to move,' she claims.

'I've had someone move into my neighbourhood so we'd be close and could film together more often. 

'To be fair, I agreed to it, but it's still a little unhinged when you think about it.'

She says some people have sent her gifts, handwritten letters, and drawings of her for 'months' after she filmed videos with them. 

'Most people are respectful, but every once in a while you run into situations that make you stop and think,' she says.

'One of the strangest happened when I was in St. Louis visiting a friend. We went out to a club with a mechanical bull, and I noticed a man staring at me pretty intensely. 

'Eventually he came over and said, "I saw you earlier today at the baseball game." Then he admitted he'd followed me around all day until he found me there. 

'That was one of those moments where your stomach drops.'

Holly says other men would simply lavish her with expensive gifts in the hopes that they could 'buy' her love.  

'I've had guys try to do this by buying me jewellery, sending me on vacations, or sending me shopping with the idea that because they did these things, I would automatically feel obligated or that somehow my feelings would change because I would see everything they can do for me,' she says.

'But someone could come along and give me absolutely nothing, and I might genuinely fall for them. 

'Feelings aren't something you can buy, and love isn't something you can earn through gifts.'

Holly explains she also already has a long-term boyfriend who she claims fully supports her career choice to sleep with other men. 

'My partner understands why I had to start filming with other men,' she says. 

'If we want to grow, and even maintain the business, then this is what needs to happen. 

'The only boundary we have is that it has to be filmed. Basically, anything goes as long as it's filmed.'

Holly says she's able to separate her work from her relationship by completely compartmentalising the two.

'I'm really good at compartmentalising, and that's what helps me keep my intimacy with my long-term partner separate,' she says. 

'To me, it's just acting. We do what we need to do, then it's over, and I don't think about it afterwards.

'I can switch it on and off like a light switch. It's like someone going to work and filing paperwork. It's a task. 

'I think most people see it as this huge, emotional thing, but to me it isn't. It's just work. 

'When I'm filming videos, I'm at work. Then I put my mum hat on and I'm just a normal person. I'm not hooking up outside of work. 

'A guy can't just hit on me and expect something to happen. If you're not willing to film, it's not happening.'