Mindy Weiss’ 8 Tips for Throwing a Luxe Holiday Party at Home

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The Three Essentials Every Holiday Host Needs

A memorable holiday table doesn’t require a perfectly coordinated collection of dinnerware or an elaborate centerpiece. According to Weiss, it comes down to a few thoughtful elements that make the experience feel special and uniquely yours.

“I always want the table to tell a little story about the people sitting around it,” she says. “That could be a beautiful place card, a family heirloom, a favorite flower, or even a little treat at each place setting.” Her advice is to embrace an eclectic mix rather than worry about everything matching. 

How to Make Your Living Room Feel Cozy and Inviting

When it comes to welcoming holiday guests, comfort is just as important as aesthetics. Soft throws, plush pillows, candlelight, fresh flowers, and seasonal greenery can instantly make a living room feel more inviting, while thoughtful serving pieces and beautiful linens bring an elevated touch to the festivities.

“Introduce pieces that make people want to stay a while longer,” Weiss says. “I also love having plenty of comfortable seating because the best parties are the ones where people can really settle in and talk.” 

The Quickest Way to Give Your Guest Room a Luxury Hotel Feel

Hosting overnight guests? You don’t need to completely redesign your spare room to make it feel special. Weiss recommends starting with beautiful bedding, then layering in a great throw, extra pillows, plush towels, and a subtle, welcoming scent. “I always think about the little things that a guest might need before they have to ask,” she says. 

The Finishing Touches That Make a Holiday Table Shine

Sometimes, it’s the smallest details that make the biggest impression. For Weiss, candles are a holiday hosting staple, especially when arranged in varying heights and finishes.

Add a little greenery, a beautiful ribbon, seasonal fruit, or a petite floral arrangement to give the table a festive finishing touch. “I'm not afraid to mix styles, colors, and finishes,” she says. “Sometimes the smallest detail is what guests remember.”

The Quince Pieces Mindy Weiss Recommends for Holiday Hosting

For a holiday home that feels elevated without being overly formal, Weiss gravitates toward versatile pieces that can be used well beyond the season.

Among her favorites from Quince’s The Well-Hosted Home edit are the Draping Real Touch Norfolk Pine Garland, European Linen Wide-Hem Napkins, and Handcrafted Fluted Marble Wine Chiller.

Where to Splurge and Where to Save on Holiday Hosting

Creating a beautiful holiday gathering is less about how much you spend and more about knowing where to invest. Weiss recommends putting your budget toward the elements that matter most to you, whether that’s fresh flowers, a memorable menu, or tableware you’ll use for years to come.

“If you love flowers, put your money there. If food is your thing, invest in the menu,” she says. “You absolutely do not need to spend a fortune on everything.” Her approach is to mix investment pieces with vintage finds, affordable accents, and items you already own.

The Hosting Detail You Should Never Overlook

While the dining table and living room tend to get the most attention before a party, Weiss says there’s one small but important space hosts often forget: the guest bathroom.

“Put out fresh hand towels, a beautiful soap, maybe a flower or a candle, and make sure everything is stocked,” she says. She also encourages hosts to think beyond decor and consider the entire guest experience. 

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